Sunday, February 19, 2012

UPDATE: What to bring to the wedding

As I learn new things, I'll keep updating this list. I'll bold the latest items, but I'm going to include everything from before so any followers don't have to go searching.
  • Dress (really, as long as you remember this, everything else can be purchased in the town of the wedding or borrowed)
  • Shoes (If bride is requiring maids to wear the same shoes, prior note is in effect)
  • Reception shoes (i.e. flip flops)
  • Jewelry (some brides will provide jewelry as a bridesmaid gift, but always have backup in case)
  • Tissues (For the bride or you)
  • Advil/ Tylenol/ Aleve (I shouldn't have to explain this one)
  • Band-aids (important for blisters, random acts of clumsiness, and other accidents)
  • Gift (acceptable to give it to the happy couple in advance too!)
  • Makeup/ Hair tools (unless having these professionally done)
  • Small pack of needle & thread (have white, ivory, and the color of the bridesmaid dress at the very least)
  • Something blue that's small, in case the bride forgets (a small blue ribbon with a safety pin is always great to have)
  • Gum/ mints for just before you head down the aisle
  • Nail clippers (will help cut tags off of dresses, hang nails, broken nails, etc)
  • Cotton balls/ q-tips
  • Nail polish remover
  • Hairspray
  • Lotion
  • Imodium/ Pepcid (Food poisoning, bridal nerves, rehearsal night indulgence, etc... learned this from a fellow bridesmaid)
  • Small hand-sized fan (especially for summer weddings that have anything taking place outside... you know, the cheap ones that are sold at drug stores)

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Wedding Shower gift suggestion

So, I was supposed to attend a wedding shower (my first in over a year) today, but winter decided to pick this weekend to magically appear, so it wasn't quite safe to drive 3 hours there, when it's already not the best drive in the world in good conditions. But I digress.

Wedding showers always send me in a tizzy, even when I'm not worrying about weather, and driving there and back, and whatnot. I hate registries. Sorry bride friends, but I do. I never get to them in time to get the decent stuff, so I'm stuck buying the random kitchen or bath stuff that got left behind. So in the past few years, I've stopped dealing with registries.

2 years ago, one of my best friends got married. I was a poor grad student at the time (as opposed to the poor part-time nanny that I am now), and definitely couldn't afford anything good on the registry, especially knowing that I was the maid of honor and was going to have at least one more shower and bachelorette and dress and everything else to pay for. Which led me to this idea... Her wedding theme was "Live, Laugh, Love." And she loves the beach. So on my summer beach trip, I wrote out the theme, the wedding date, and the bride and groom's names in the sand and took pictures of each. Then I bought a 5 picture frame from IKEA (aka- cheap and chic) and printed the pictures. Surprise! It was the HIT of the shower, and most original gift by far. I think it cost me $25 max.

This time around, I'm serving as the photographer. I picked my favorite images, and bought them a similar IKEA frame. (I'm going to keep my fingers crossed that she doesn't know about this blog, since it could be several weeks before I get the present to her).

Not great with photography? Get them a gift card to Shutterfly, Snapfish, etc, to go with a nice frame. That way, they can pick out their favorites.